It’s the interaction and the one on one intensity of it, at least from a female point of view, porn is hot and it certainly turns me on, but there’s something missing. If I slowly slip my clothes off, rub moisturising lotion into my breasts and over my stomach, then start running my fingers up and down my thighs until my pussy starts to tingle no one cares.

That’s the problem I think, and thats what leaves me feeling a little empty when I have fun on my own. I’m sure it must be the same for men, I mean, you’re all basically show offs aren’t you? Who can piss the furthest, who can bench the most weight, who can fuck the best girls? So you’d think that men would want some attention when they get that cock hard. They want to share it don’t they?

I’ve been wondering about this you see. Phone sex is still a multi million pound industry in the UK alone, even with all the free porn you could ever want available at the click of a button. Why do people still love phone sex?

It has to be the attention and the human interaction. Phone sex is, after all a real sexual experience with a real person. It’s just you and them, they are not broadcasting to 100s of guys, its just the two of you. When I start to turn myself on, I can hear that the guy who’s called me is breathing heavier as I describe what I’m doing to myself. What I’m doing is having a direct effect on him, and the fact that he’s getting turned on by me is turning me on even more. See, you don’t get that with porn.

Of course, a phone sex wank can be crap I’m sure – but so can a porno wank. If you are watching a film and getting yourself off, what do you do if it’s not doing it for you? Fast forward or flick to another film. Most commercial phone sex lines let you flick back to the menu and choose another girl if the one you’re with is not doing it for you. And there’s still the benefit of the real person interaction.

So that’s why I think phone sex is still popular. It’s on demand like internet porn, which people want these days, but its still a real sexual experience with a real person, just you two, one on one. There’s something about that which is not replaceable I think.

And if you’re watching internet porn every day and it’s starting to feel a bit empty and not so satisfying, try ringing a phone sex line. You can even watch porn and ring a phone sex line. That’s like watching porn with someone hot!!!! And we all enjoy that don’t we?